You asked: "Can we ask for money instead of gifts?"
YOUR ETIQUETTE DILEMMAS SOLVED
Debrett's Wedding Guide editor Jo Bryant
says: "Asking for money on your gift list is now commonplace, but
it should be handled carefully.
"Guest must feel as if they are giving money towards something
worthwhile. Many travel agents allow guests to put money towards a
couple's dream honeymoon, and some offer lists of 'experiences'
they can buy, such as a romantic meal."
THE BEST WEDDING GIFT LISTS AROUND
A Petal-Filled Party At Home
The owner of Hedsor House had one spectacular wedding. Plus, Mary Berry made his wedding cake!
Real Weddings Held At Home
You might not have to look very far for your wedding venue, or spend too much. Be inspired by these couples who married at home
Our Three-Day Cornish Wedding
Pops of pink and lots of foliage made this three-day party extra special
Vibrant London Wedding
This couple chose quirky venue Asylum for their London wedding
Fairytale Fantasy Real Wedding
This was a wedding filled with sequins, sparkles, and white and blue touches held at the opulent Syon Park