Speeches and the cutting of the cake are at the heart of the reception and traditionally take place in the following order:
The first speech is given by the bride's father, godfather, family friend or relation. This speech introduces the bride to the groom's family, usually with praise and tender memories and ends with a toast to the couple.
The bridegroom begins by thanking the bride's parents for the wedding and for allowing him to marry their daughter. Now is the moment for any personal remarks he may wish to make about his new wife. He ends by thanking the guests for attending and proposes a toast to the attendants.
The best man's speech introduces the groom to the bride's family. This speech is expected to contain funny stories about the groom, but should not be too risqué - you don't want him to embarrass your granny. He also reads out any cards or telegrams from absent friends
The cutting of the cake is then announced by the toastmaster or best man. The couple make the first cut, then the cake is taken away to be sliced.