Geraldine van Oversteeg, 39, married Richard Assen, 42, at Villa Piaggia, in Montaione, Italy, on 22nd May 2016. She says:

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Richard and I wanted to create the perfect Tuscan summer wedding and Villa Piaggia was ideal. The exclusive venue is beautiful, secluded and private - plus, it was very accommodating of kids, which was important to us.

I wanted our children, Roemer and Kaatje, to be included in the ceremony because we saw our wedding as a special union between the four of us. We had them bring our wedding rings forward during our vows - the celebrant then asked them funny questions in which they promised to be good and love each other! For all the flowers, we tried to keep things simple. I carried a gypsophila bouquet, while for the ceremony, we put together a variety of herbs in terracotta pots with white candles dotted about.

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On the Monday after the wedding, we hired a barista and coffee cart to see all our guests off. We didn't have favours on the wedding day itself, but instead created a special wrap for all the cofee cups with a thank-you note on. Guests could then take their cups with them, as well as a bag of Tuscan cookies. My top tip: Consider having your legal ceremony at home and having a blessing abroad instead. To avoid any legal issues, we actually married 'for real' in Amsterdam three months afer our Italian 'wedding' - it took so much stress out of everything.

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Where they bought it

The bride Dress, £1,730, pronovias.com

The groom Suit £2,250; shirt, £450, and shoes, £450, dolcegabbana.com

The rings 0.4ct diamond and rose-gold band, from £1,800, and gold band, from £1,800, 123gold.nl

The venue and the catering From £5,584, to hire, and food, from £120 per person (includes welcome drinks/ canapés, two entrées, main course and dessert buffet), villapiaggia.it

The decor Chinese lanterns, £10 for 20, and Ginger Ray pom-poms (on trees), £4.99 for five, amazon.co.uk. Festoon lighting, similar from £34.99, lighting-direct.co.uk

The flowers Bridal bouquet, £80; chairbacks, from £12.74 each; buttonholes, from £12.74, and table decoration (includes glass jars, candle holders and herbs in pots), £679 for 10 tables, simonesardellifiori.it

The stationery Invite suite, £1.50 each, and advice cards, £1.50 each, Kim Turkington at lovecloth.co.uk and prontaprint.com

The transport Vintage Fiat 500, from £212, to hire, bellinibruno.com

The entertainment Band, £1,000 for two hours, pepperandthejellies.com

The planner From £1,720, instyleweddingmanagement.com

The photographer From £2,500, violetaminnick.com