Alexandra Wenman, 38, married Antony Reed, 40, at La Escollera in Sant Jordi de ses Salines, Ibiza, on 1 October 2015. She says:

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Deciding to have our wedding in Ibiza was an easy choice as both Tony and I are sun-worshipping beach bums. Ibiza is also a very special place for me because of its spiritual vibe - I'm an angel healer and holistic therapist - so it was the perfect spot to get married.

We stumbled across La Escollera after spending an entire weekend checking out venues with a wedding planner. They were all beautiful, but were either too expensive or not quite right. We'd both given up hope until we stopped off at Es Cavallet Beach and popped into its restaurant - we'd found our venue!

Our theme was 'heavenly bohemian'. Each of the reception tables was named after constellations and our table plan was a star map with the title, 'Where in the heavens am I sitting?'. In front of the map I hung a mobile with everyone's names written within a shooting star. 

We married in London a few days before, which meant we could have a unique second wedding in Ibiza. We incorporated a mix of ceremonies such as Native American prayers, Jewish customs, a Pagan hand-fasting and an angel blessing (everyone has a guardian angel - my friend and fellow healer, Sabi, wrote a poem to the angels to bless our union). All of our guests were in tears.

My top tip: Remember that trying to make everyone happy isn't going to happen. In the end it's your opinions that matter.

Photography by www.thismodernlove.co.uk