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The 32 Best Mother-of-the-Bride Gifts for All Budgets and Styles

Best Mother-of-the-Bride Gifts

Brides / Amelia Manley

It’s almost time for the big day, and by now you are elbow-deep in cakes, seating arrangements, dresses, and makeup. But, while you’ve been hard at work, your mom has likely been with you every step of the way making things happen so your day goes off without a hitch.

So, take a step back to remember that your wedding day is not only a day to celebrate your new-found love, but to also take pride in the person you've become. It's likely that your mom has largely contributed to the person you are today—and that's something to be thankful for. A meaningful gift personalized for her doesn't just say "thank you for helping me plan my wedding," but "thank you for being my mom."

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“Because it’s your mother, make it thoughtful, sentimental, and meaningful,” says etiquette expert Lisa Mirza Grotts. “Choose a gift that will show your appreciation for her love and support for your life and the wedding planning process.”

If you’re not sure where to start, we rounded up our favorite products that are sure to make her feel super special.

The timeless design of this bracelet will make a gorgeous addition to your mom’s jewelry collection. And, coming from you on your wedding day, it might secretly be her favorite. Choose from gold, rhodium, or rose gold to match her other pieces.

There's nothing quite like the striking simplicity of a pendant necklace to make the gift of a lifetime. We love the symbolic message of unity and love of the interlocking circles. The hammered texture makes them glimmer gorgeously in the sun. Made from either 14K gold vermeil or sterling silver, the necklace will resist tarnishing or scuffs, so she can wear it daily.

This isn't your average mug. Not only is the glass design a pretty way to display her drink, but you can customize it with her birth flower, name, title, and wedding date. Even if she doesn't drink coffee or tea, this mug makes for a pretty keepsake that can hold makeup brushes or pens. If you really love the design, consider ordering more for the Mother of the Groom, Maid of Honor, and even your bridesmaids. The seller offers a discount for bulk orders.

If both your mother and grandmother will be attending the wedding, why not get a gift to honor both of them? This portrait will warm their hearts as it features both of them standing right next to you during life's special moments. While there are many personalized portraits on Etsy, this artist stands out with how much customization they offer. You can choose the dress and shoe type for your mother and grandmother, your wedding gown, veil, and bouquets as well as other accessories. There's also multiple skin tones, hair colors, lengths, and textures to choose from. Customizing the portrait will be half the fun.

Because it's a digital print, you'll receive a download that you can print and frame yourself.

The clean, simple style of this cuff bracelet makes it the perfect accessory for your big day and something she’ll treasure for years to come. The outside is simple, but on the inside she'll find a sincere message from you. You can also customize it with your own handwriting for an extra personal touch. Choose between 14K gold filled or sterling silver and know that the bracelet is nickel and lead free.

If your mother still needs a clutch for the wedding, get her this one. On the outside is a beautiful beaded design made from suede adorned with French lace and sequins. On the inside is a print of a photo and custom message of your choosing, giving her a reminder of your love every time she looks inside. The purse measures 11 x 7.9 inches and stands open on its own. With 10 gorgeous shades, she can easily match it to her mother-of the-bride outfit. She will treasure it for years to come.

Your mother will certainly want to have a pocket mirror for mid-day touchups during your wedding, so why not gift her one with a sweet message? The 2.5 inch mirror is engraved with the sentiment, "Mom I am who I am today as a reflection of you (heart) name." Inside you'll find two mirrors, one being magnified. The metallic design is timeless and you can choose between stainless steel, rose gold plated, or yellow gold plated stainless steel.

For the candle lover in your life, this soy candle will stand out from the rest of her collection. Don't be surprised if the definition of the mother-of-the-bride brings her to tears. Though you can't customize the message, you can pick from more than 10 different scents to best fit her personality. Plus, if you buy the matching Mother-of the-Groom Candle, you'll get free shipping.

Your mom might need a relaxing getaway after all the excitement is over. Help her do it in style with this chic, vegan leather overnight bag. It’s roomy enough for a weekend retreat—and you can monogram it for an extra-special touch. It’s crafted from vegan leather (polyurethane) with gold-toned hardware, with a trolley pass-through for attaching to your luggage!

Inspired by nature, this butterfly ginkgo box is the perfect spot for your mom to store her trinkets and keepsakes. The beautiful design will no doubt grab the top spot on her vanity, too. It’s crafted from stainless steel, brass, and enamel - built to last for years to come.

You know your mom will be hard-pressed to keep a dry eye on your wedding day. Show her how special she is and give her something to wipe her tears of joy with—like this beautiful personalized handkerchief. “Make the MOB gift a personalized one-of-kind keepsake that will garner lots of pre-wedding hugs,” says Grotts. Personalize this handkerchief by choosing your trim style (lace, scallop, and straight) and write your own custom message.

Crafted from 100 percent organic cotton grown and knit in Turkey, this luxurious, breathable, and buttery soft robe features OEKO-TEX-certified dyes, which are free from any harmful toxins or chemicals. It has a relaxed silhouette, hits just above the knee, and features a functional back patch pocket and self-tie belt.

This sheer formula adds a bit of sheen and light color to mom’s pout. With antioxidant-rich chamomile and calendula oils that nourish, moisturize, and hydrate the lips, this trio of best-selling shades is subtle and sweet without feeling greasy.

These handmade jewelry dishes are both practical and sentimental. Everyone could use a little dish to hold knick knacks on their nightstand, and this design comes personalized with your wedding date, name, and a sweet message to mom. Choose from different message options or write your own custom message.

If your mom loves her fresh juices, hook her up with this truly incredible cold press juicer from Nama. The updated model is super easy to clean, easy to use, and works quickly and efficiently. The new hopper technology cuts and loads produce for you, so you don’t have to waste time feeding one ingredient at a time; add whole or large pieces of fruit or veggies straight into the juicer, and enjoy great-tasting juice all year round.

Nope, you can't have too many reusable shopping bags. This is a gift your mom can use during the wedding festivities and way beyond. Made from 100 percent cotton, it's durable and the 15x16 inch size is spacious. Fill it with smaller gifts like the candle and MOB shirt below for a fun goody bag for your mother.

We love the idea of gifting your mom a T-shirt or sweatshirt that she can wear while lounging at the hotel before the wedding. Not only will she feel special but any guests will know who she is. Softy Pinky makes both soft sweatshirts and T-shirts in a wide selection of colors and designs.

Give your mom a sophisticated way to serve up her favorite cheeses, fruits, and spreads with this well-equipped charcuterie board. This deluxe 19-piece gift set is made from acacia wood and includes everything she needs for both casual and formal entertaining.

Jennifer Behr is known for premium, luxury, and absolutely stunning accessories that add sparkle and shine to any outfit. These gold-plated brass butterfly pins come in a set of five in various sizes that can be worn solo or stacked for a fun, layered look.

Matcha Mamas will love this creamy, delicious matcha latte powder that provides a jitter-free energy boost for her busy day. But the best part? Each scoop contains certified grass-fed hydrolyzed collagen powder with 10 grams of Type 1 and Type 3 collagens, L-theanine (a calming amino acid), and MCT powder for vibrant hair, skin, and nails. Maintain her youthful glow while getting energy on the go!

This set of two gorgeous planters is perfect for the plant-loving mommy! Modern, minimal, and sleek, this duo of 7 and 4-inch planter pots come with drainage holes, plugs, and two matching saucers. They’re made with recycled plastics, natural stone, and wood dust and come in several earth-toned colorways to suit a variety of styles.

With pets, kids and grandkids, and daily messes, chances are high that Mom’s in need of a new vacuum. And with Miele’s incredible brand reputation for making vacuums that are built to last, there’s no better choice than the easy-to-use cordless stick vacuum. It features high-performance vortex technology, an innovative 3-in-1 function for flexibility, replaceable Li-ion rechargeable battery with up to 60-minute runtime, multiple brushes, and a maintenance-free Hygiene Lifetime filter. She’ll love your help in keeping her household tidy!

She’s “Mother-of-the-Bride” Barbie! The CHI x Barbie 1.25 inch Ceramic Flat Iron features ceramic plates for a smooth glide and even heat distribution up to 425°F, adjustable temperature settings for customized styling, digital display and 'mode' setting with preset temperatures, and takes less than a minute to heat up. Plus, the design is just adorable.

These dishwasher-safe borosilicate glass storage containers feature double-seal lids that can be vacuum sealed for fresher, longer-lasting food. They even have QR codes, so you can use an app to track how old your produce is. This set comes with one small, one medium, and one large size. The vacuum sealer is not included, but can be added on for an additional $55.

For the sugar-conscious mama with a sweet tooth, this four-pack of individually wrapped SmartSweets Caramels is a perfect (and absolutely delicious) choice. Instead of reaching for the artificial stuff, SmartSweets makes low-sugar candy with no artificial sweeteners, added sugar or sugar alcohols, and only 1 gram of sugar for the whole bag. And the best part? They taste incredible.

For a splurge that’s absolutely worth every penny, hook your (always re-decorating) mom up with some gorgeous, high-quality furniture like the dresser from Thuma. We love that the modular design is endlessly customizable, so she can add or remove each drawer depending on her needs and space. Crafted from 100 percent upcycled wood in four beautiful colorways, this GREENGUARD Gold Certified brand is ethical, sustainable, and makes furniture that’s built to last.

Cometeer is transforming your morning routine with yummy and hyper-fresh coffee right from your freezer. These flash-frozen, freshly brewed, artisan coffee capsules are so easy to use.  Simply add hot water for hot coffee or let the capsule melt for cold brew—no machine required and coffee is made in seconds!

This hypoallergenic 18K Gold Asymmetrical Evil Eye Bracelet features a dainty gold chain and petite evil eye pendant that sits asymmetrically for a little something extra. It’s crafted from 18K gold plated sterling silver and Cubic Zirconia stones, with a lobster clasp closure. Evil eyes have long been used to ward off bad vibes—which is perfect to wear on the wedding day!

This absolutely delicious and dreamy scent from Snif is going to become Mom’s favorite!  Vegan, cruelty-free, and made without parabens, preservatives, phthalates, or synthetic dyes inside, Pacifico features salted jasmine and California oak, twists of sage and rosemary, water lily, and plum. It smells like walking beachside in California—heavenly!

Whether she’s sober or simply cutting back on alcohol, a good non-alcoholic rosé is hard to find. This bottle is the first non-alcoholic wine ever to win Best in Class in one of the biggest and oldest wine competitions in the world, and only contains 75 calories a bottle! She can indulge in a glass or two for happy hour, without the buzz and without the guilt!

Does your mom’s hair need a little boost? This bundle is specifically for fine, limp, or color-treated hair to give those tresses back a little protein and a lot of bounce. The set includes Powerhouse Protein Cream, Silky Smooth Flaxseed Gel, and Va-Va Volumizing Foam, fragranced with essential oils, and are all cruelty, sulfate, silicone, gluten, and paraben free.

This trio gift set fights dryness, dullness, fine lines, and wrinkles. The set includes: Self Absorbed Facial Moisturizer, Power Trip Facial Serum, and the award-winning 20/20 Eye Cream, all incredibly hydrating to provide youthful glow and radiance. Plus, the packaging looks beautiful on a countertop!

Meet the Expert

Lisa Mirza Grotts is a 23-year certified Etiquette Expert who helps her clients and readers deal with business, social, and political situations. She is the former Director of Protocol for the City and County of San Francisco, a Certified Etiquette Professional, and a former member of the International Society of Protocol and Etiquette Professionals. In addition to her television, radio, newspaper, and online presence, she authored a manners blog for the Huffington Post for eight years.

What to Look for in a Mother-of-the-Bride Gift

Passions

Selecting a present that directly correlates with her passions will not only ensure that she actually uses her gift, but it reflects the fact that you value and pay attention to her interests. If she loves entertaining, get her a proper Charcuterie Board Gift Set. If she loves to travel, a monogramed weekender bag like this one from Mark & Graham will be well appreciated.

Personalization

With a little personalization, everything from a candle to a tote bag will feel more special and fit for the occasion. We especially like personalizing items she will likely need for the wedding, like a compact mirror or clutch. You can never go wrong with personalized piece of jewelry like Chic Mama Jewelry Cuff Bracelet.

Experiences

If your mom never "wants" anything or is just simply hard to buy for—don't sweat it. Instead of purchasing her a new set of glassware, that bottle of perfume, or a designer handbag, opt for a gift that creates an experience for her (or the two of you!) to enjoy. Schedule a day at the spa, a trip to the theater, or a fun activity you've always wanted to try. It'll give you something to look forward to after the wedding—and allow for some always-needed bonding time.

As for etiquette around gifting, Grotts suggests staying away from “less than thoughtful MOB gifts, including gag or prank gifts or any item re-gifted. Make it worth remembering, not regrettable.”

FAQ
  • When should I give my mom her mother-of-the-bride gift?

    It's a great idea to treat your mother throughout the wedding-planning process, but a special, custom gift can be given a few days or weeks before the wedding itself. The big day of will be busy for both of you, so schedule a fun date for just the two of you ahead of time.

    Or, if you want to give a small gift like a piece of jewelry on the day of the wedding, make sure to do it at a quiet moment before the festivities begin—you'll want to make sure she keeps the gift in a safe place once the party gets started!

    “It’s customary to present the gift before your wedding day,” says Grotts. “There will be more than one occasion for presentation: at your bridal shower, the rehearsal dinner, or even a private moment between the two of you.”

  • Should I give a gift to my mother-in-law?

    Yes! A token of appreciation to your future mother-in-law is never the wrong choice. Plus, it will go a long way in building your relationship. She'll appreciate your effort and recognition in raising your future spouse! It's also a good idea to gift your father-in-law something special, or splurge on a joint gift that both your in-laws will enjoy.

  • How much should I spend on my mother-of-the-bride gift?

    How much you spend on a gift for your mother or mother-in-law is completely personal to you—and only you! First, consider your own financial situation and set a budget for not only your mom's gift, but all of the important people in your life that you want to purchase a token of appreciation for.

    It's no secret that weddings are expensive–setting a budget can help you stay within your means and allow you to distribute it among all the meaningful aspects of your special day. Next, take time to reflect upon your relationship. If the two of you are extremely close and she's invested a significant amount of time and effort into your wedding (and life!), it's best to invest even more effort into a quality gift.

    Yet as a our list shows, you can find meaningful gifts at all price ranges. For instance, you can create a Custom 3 Generations Portrait for less than $20.

Why Trust Brides?

Sharon Brandwein is a freelance writer with over two years of experience covering parenting, lifestyle, and content marketing. She excels at finding the perfect gift for friends, family—and especially—mothers.

Chelsea Frank has been a comedy and lifestyle writer for nearly 10 years. She’s contributed to dozens of online publications, researching and writing on a number of topics from clean beauty and fashion to travel and wellness. Follow her on Instagram @chelseafrank.

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