Whether you’re planning to pop a bottle of bubbly or send a piece of snail mail, proposing to the members of your bridal party can be a fun and creative experience, and finding the perfect gift to accompany your proposal is part of the fun. A bridal party proposal present is a unique way to show your loved ones how much they mean to you.
From bouquets to bridesmaid gift boxes packed with goodies, there are plenty of options to choose from. We recommend gifts or other details that can be customized for each bridesmaid. "If you wish to enhance the 'proposal,' consider adding their monogram to note cards with a custom wax seal and your favorite colored wax," suggests Emily Campbell of Go Bella Event Design. If you plan on gifting custom gift boxes, look for pre-made options or find boxes that are easy to assemble. It's nice to include items they can use during your wedding journey and beyond, like travel cosmetic bags or sunglasses for a destination wedding.
To help you find the best gift for your bridal party, we researched the top options with these features in mind.
Flamingo Rose Jasmine & Rose Bath Set
Show your appreciation to your bridesmaid by gifting her a self-care package, like this luxe set from Flamingo Estate. It includes a jasmine and damask rose candle, a bar soap made of 100% essential oils, and a hand soap formulated with their signature scent.
Veuve Clicquot Yellow Label Champagne
Known for its signature yellow label, this high-end Champagne is loved by many for its refreshing, crisp taste. The gold gift box adds an extra elegance to its presentation, making it a perfect gift for your bridesmaid.
Mejuri Heart Pendant Necklace
This dainty necklace will show her how much you want her to play a role in your wedding. Made of 18k gold vermeil, your bridesmaids can wear this necklace on the wedding day and long afterward layered with other favorite pieces.
Diptyque Mini Candle Discovery Set
You can’t go wrong with scented candles, especially from the iconic luxury brand Diptyque. This set is handmade in France and features three of their most popular scents, including Baies (or Berries), Figuier (or Fig Tree), and Rose.
Cuyana Mini Heart Case
Show your bridesmaid how much you would love for her to be in your wedding with this adorable mini heart case. Made of Italian pebbled leather, this bag is the perfect size for lipstick, keys, jewelry, and other small accessories. You can even have this monogrammed with her initials for an extra special touch.
Gold Belly Intemporel - Box of 28 Macarons
Your bridesmaid won't be able to say no when seeing this beautiful Ladurée box filled with 28 delicious macarons. These gluten-free treats are a chef’s choice of assorted flavors, including blackcurrant violet, caramel, chocolate, coffee, and lemon.
Nancy Silverton’s Favorite Gelato Gift Box
You will delight your bridesmaid-to-be with this gorgeous and delicious box of artisan gelatos. It includes celebrity chef Nancy Silverton's top vegan flavors, all shipped in an insulated box to stay cold. Each of the nine seasonal gelatos is perfectly proportioned in a four-ounce pint and packaged in a clear kraft gift box with a grosgrain ribbon.
Papier Wavy Trim Notecard Set
A gift that's both practical and stylish? Yes, please! This wavy-trim notecard set is available in eight color choices and is printed on textured paper. For an additional fee, you can also upgrade to premium card stock. Personalize the notecard with their name and address for a custom look.
La Maison du Chocolat Truffles, 30 Pieces
Made in France by French master chef Nicolas Cloiseau, these truffles are truly mouthwatering. Consisting of whipped ganache and chocolate with an extra dusting of cocoa powder, the treats are available in a classic dark chocolate flavor or champagne cognac-infused blend.
Minted Par Avion Bridesmaid Cards
Opt for a snail mail proposal with this charming and romantic postcard from Minted. The front design can be chosen from an assortment of color palettes, and a photo and personal note can be added on the back. Three types of paper are available, including the brand's signature high-quality weighted paper, pearlescent paper, and recycled paper. This card will have your bridesmaids rushing to the post office to send you a yes.
Mod Party 'Will You be My Bridesmaid' Proposal Gift Box
We love these retro-style gift boxes because they come empty so that you can fill them with customized goodies. The lid is printed with the big question on the top, so your loved ones will know immediately what the special occasion is for. Fill them with sunglasses, compacts, squad hoodies, champagne flutes, and more—endless possibilities.
Mod Party Bridesmaid Proposal Box Set
This chic gift box is brimming with wedding day essentials. We love that you can personalize the lid with your bridesmaid's name, and it's filled with everything from lip balm to a candle tin to other personalized goodies, including a customized sticker that’s just the right size for a mini champagne bottle. You can also customize the color of the lid. This would be an excellent opportunity to use your wedding colors, or you can use each bridesmaid's favorite color on each box to further personalize it. To top it off, there's also a blank card for you to include a handwritten note.
Exploradora Coffee Around the World Blend
This blend perfectly combines robust African coffee with smooth Central American beans. Exploradora is a “women-grown, women-owned” company that supports female coffee growers worldwide. Upgrade this gift with a cute handmade mug or coffee scoop.
LittleFlowerSoapCo. Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Box
Use this gift box to propose to your bridal party and make them feel like the queens they are. It's personalized with a name on the top and includes bath salts, a soy candle, matches, and a gift tag for a handwritten note. This gift would pair well with a spa day so they can take the luxurious experience home.
TheGiftStudioCompany Will You Be My Bridesmaid Gift Make Up Bag
Any of your bridesmaids will be thrilled when they unzip this personalized makeup bag that reveals the big question on the inside. It comes in four neutral colors, and it's made from durable cotton canvas fabric. We also love that it doubles as a unique gift box, and you can fill it with a few beauty goodies or beauty sets that they can use on the big day—like lip balm and nail polish. You can also let it shine independently because this gift speaks for itself.
GeoMinimalist Personalized Wedding Party Proposal Gift Necklace Set
These handmade necklaces come stamped with an initial and a personalized proposal card. Choose from gold, silver, or rose gold for the finish so it pairs well with other jewelry your bridesmaids may already own. They'll be sure to wear this long after the wedding has passed.
Homesick Let's Toast Candle
This candle has a sweet and bubbly scent, with notes of mandarin, grapefruit, apple, pineapple, and champagne. Each candle is made from a natural soy wax blend with premium cotton wicks. You can personalize with the message callout on the side of the box, which lets you list your bridesmaid's name and the reason for celebrating.
The Bouqs Co. Eye Adore You
Go with a plant if you want an unforgettable and long-lasting proposal gift. This jaunty, joyful Jade Pathos comes comfortably potted in a planter that’s hard not to adore. Include a thoughtful card, and you’ve got an irresistible proposal gift—and don’t worry, this plant is super easy to care for, so your bridesmaids don't have to have a green thumb.
Sugarfina 'Be My Bridesmaid' 3-Piece Candy Bento Box
If you and your loved ones have a sweet tooth, consider this fun Sugarfina gift box. Packaged in a charming slider box, the curated box has three bespoke gummies, including Champagne Bears, Champagne Bubbles, and Rosé Roses. We love that it already comes with the big question loud and clear on the packaging.
Kate Aspen 'Will You Be My Bridesmaid' Wedding Kit
From whimsical magnets to a bridesmaid-themed coffee mug, this gift is packed with goodies to delight your squad. The real surprise, however, will be the proposal they’ll uncover when they open the box. Unlike other options on this list, this pick cannot be customized and personalized, so we recommend adding a handwritten letter. Overall, it's a one-and-done gift that has it all.
Sticks & Stones Bridesmaid/Groomsmen Proposal Cookies
For the squad that always enjoys baked goods together, use these custom-made, freshly baked cookies to pop the question. Available in a pack of two, you can customize the cookies to have the question iced on the top and choose between a gift box or cellophane bag for their container. This gift is heartwarming and delicious; your bridesmaids-to-be will gladly accept your proposal.
What to Look for in a Bridal Party Proposal Gift
- Thoughtfulness: Above all, a bridal party proposal gift should express your excitement, along with a heartfelt expression of how much you value their friendship. Let your future bridesmaids know that you truly value and care for them by choosing a customized gift, such as the personalized makeup gift bag. They'll feel appreciated and honored to be part of your squad on such a special day.
- Wedding Location and Theme: You might also consider the theme, location, or aesthetic of your wedding (if you've already planned that far ahead). Are you throwing a destination wedding? Include personalized sunglasses, a customized luggage tag, or a map in your bridal party proposal gift box. If you're planning a dreamy outdoor wedding in the spring, a bouquet of flowers with a hand-written card is a great option. A sparkling wine is also ideal for holidays or New Year's Eve ceremonies.
- Budget: You don't want to blow your budget before sending out the guest list. Consider carefully how much you want to spend and consider factors, including how many people will be in your bridal party. You don't have to spend much for a thoughtful bridal party proposal gift, such as the hair tie favor cards which cost just $2 each.
Why Trust Brides
Brides contributor Elizabeth MacLennan has been scouring marketplaces worldwide—and the web—hunting down that just right object for over 15 years as a prop stylist. Read: she’s seen just about everything when it comes to gifts! With a discerning eye and astute mind, she considers quality, function, and design when vetting products. Plus, she’s been a bridesmaid more times than she can count, which means she knows what will make the girls in your crew swoon.
- Alicia Mae is the owner, CEO, and lead wedding planner of ILÉ Events, a New Jersey-based event planning agency.
- Emily Campbell is the founder and executive producer of Go Bella Event Design, a Colorado-based event design firm.